Thursday, August 28, 2008

Nine days down, 171 more days to go...

What is 180 days you ask? California State law requires that schools provide at least 175 days of instruction and that students are in school for a minimum number of minutes as designated for each grade level. On average, students attend school 180 days, for approximately 6.5 hours a day. Local school districts determine their school calendar. Most schools tend to operate on a calendar year that begins in August and ends in June. Students are allowed vacation breaks in between due to local, state, national, and school holidays and events. The school district our children attend has a 180 days school year, beginning late August and ending in early June. We are now in week two, or day nine.

As you remember, I do look forward to the school year when I can get an alone time for myself... but that is not without its price. With the new school year comes the all the stresses of trying to juggle all their schedule, which just means chauffeuring kids to and from schools, sports, and any other activities I was crazy enough to let them sign up for. For the most part it shouldn't be difficult. It only becomes difficult when you multiply all the activities by four-fold. I rely heavily on the generosity of our neighbors and kids' friends... who often pick up the slack. The alternative to this busy/hectic lifestyle is not as attractive as it may seem. I'd much rather keep my children busy then have them sit in front of TV, computer or video games. If I look at each child individually, it's really not that bad... school, one sport, music lesson (although boys have two instrument lessons).

For me the hardest is getting up early in the morning. My oldest boy, who is an over-achiever, starts school at an 6:50am! And although my boys both attend the same school this year, it really doesn't help because my second boy starts school at 7:50! And my girls start school at 8:30... so you see, from 6am to 8:30am I'm busy getting kids up and ready, and chauffeuring them to their schools. Only after 8:30am I am able to get myself together, get a bite to eat, and go on with my day... which usually happens later than sooner. During the school hours it's also very important to line up my chores/errands in most efficient manner... making sure it's all done before the pick-up schedule starts. From 2:30pm, all hell breaks loose! Don't ask... it's a mess!

If you remember seeing my calendar from previous entry (I think back in July), I mentioned how much busier it gets during the school year. Well, it really does. But everything runs like a well-oiled machine around here... unless something gets canceled/changed. Then it messes up the whole schedule! I usually try to incorporate "elective activities" slowly... once our "main schedule" is stabilized. That means we try out our school schedule for couple weeks first, then we figure out where we can fit in music lessons, etc. Once that schedule is stabilized then I can think about scheduling in any activity for myself. One thing I've been wanting to "schedule in" my calendar, but have neglected, is a regular physical activity for myself. I'm embarrassed to say I still haven't been able to find the time to exercise regularly. But this time I am really going to fit it in. I'm not getting younger, and I need to keep myself healthy. I want to live a healthy, long life. So wish me luck as I attempt to tackle another 171 more school days!

Monday, August 18, 2008

It's the Most Wonderful Time of the Year!
(and no, I'm not referring to Christmas)

What is the most wonderful time of the year? Well, for me (among many others) it's the first day of the new school year. It may seem quite ironic, me a mother of four children, waiting to get my kids off to school. Don't get me wrong! I DO love my children, and I DO love spending time with them... I just enjoy spending time alone as well. When kids are at school I can actually hear myself think. Imagine that! And trust me, I enjoy the silence. I find that when I'm alone I don't listen to the radio, watch TV, or do anything that requires any sound. I just like to hear the wind blow, birds chirp and just let my mind wander. It's a refreshing feeling. No, I don't get bored nor do I get lonely. Well, today is the first day of school for all of our kids, so I sit here and let my mind wander. But the morning didn't quite start out that way.

This year we are down to two schools (YEA!). Boys will be at same school and the girls will be at the same school. I can't believe that my kids are getting so much older. Chris started 10th grade today, and Jeffrey started 9th grade at Rio Americano High School. This is the first time they've been in the same school since we left Ohio... three years ago. Last time they were in the same school they were 5th & 6th graders... and I thought they were big then! Anyhow, they have their plates full this year... so I'll watch nervously as they maneuver their schedule. Girls are at Mariemont Elementary School together for just one more year. Lizzy is in 6th grade and will move onto middle school next year & Rachel is in 4th grade. Both girls have a male teacher this year, and both of their classes are mixed class (Lizzy in 5th/6th grade combo, and Rachel in 4th/5th grade combo). I've heard great things about both of their teachers so I am expecting a great year. I'm always nervous at the beginning of the year though ... you never know how the year will shape up.

As our children grow older I am constantly reminded how little time we have with them... before they go off to college and move into the world. I am both excited and nervous... knowing that many things are out of our hands, but hoping that we have prepared our children to be able to tackle many obstacles that may come their way. I know that we have tried our best to instill in our children to aim high, to uphold moral values, and become contributing members of the society. Only time will tell. I know all I can do is to continue to be a supportive & loving mother to them...

Thursday, August 14, 2008

Last 4 years at PUC
West Coast Korean Campmeeting


Since we have moved back to California from Ohio four years ago we have attended the West Coast Campmeeting held at PUC. Personally I don't care to go... too much work, sleep in dorm, eat cafeteria food, etc. But once your children get "hooked" you feel obligated, as a good mom, to take them and provide them the opportunity to bond with fellow Korean SDA kids. It is held in August each year, right before school begins. I always come back with mixed emotions. I feel good to have provided my children with both cultural & religious experience that they will always cherish, and I enjoy meeting up with my old friends... but I HATE (did I emphasize this enough?) the dorms. I also miss my home... comfortable, clean, and quiet... not to mention my hubby that stays behind and work so we can enjoy ourselves... lol.

Anyhow, I've found some old photos from previous PUC campmeetings...


This year... Jeffrey (far left) participated in Pie Eating Contest

one bored afternoon... face painting in the room
my two girls with Kim girls from Portland, Oregon

with the Kim children in front of our house...

Highlights from 2007...
my boys (Chris, Jeff & Matthew) aka Pokemon Masters
after Talent Show... they won 2nd place!!!
Here they are with their friends.

Chris, Jeff & Matthew poses with Sarah Jung
with the poster from a fan saying "Go Pokemon Masters!"

2006 PUC Campmeeting...
first year the "Pokemon Masters" entered the Talent show
Here they are after the show with Grandma Song & Auntie Helen

2005 summer...
Here (in height) are the Im's, Choi's & Kim's
Randy (in yellow) with his mom...
he was too shy to stand alone
boy, how much they have grown!

Here's Kim's & Choi's again...
refer to the first photo in this post... LOL




Thursday, July 31, 2008

My busy life...

Many of you (those who know me) know that I have a very busy life. I never knew that being a "stay-at-home-mom" would be so exhausting, granted I have four minor children to take care of. It certainly is a balancing act. You have to figure out just how much of your precious resources (time, money, energy, etc.) you can afford, and try to keep the kids not only occupied but stimulated as well. It's very tempting to push all the children into the same activities... and for a while (when they are young) you can get away with it. But as they grow older, and obviously have different interests & talents, it just isn't feasible. You don't want to give the kids too much idle time... trust me on this one. It's true that kids need some "down time" for creativity and playtime, but all that changes as they get older. All that idle time turns into "electronic gadget" time. I want to provide a very balanced life, thus require that my children participate in some sort of sports activities, take music lessons, read daily, and do some chores.

I thought it would be interesting to see how my month (during summer break) looks like. As you see the calendar below for the month of July keep in mind that repeated entry (meaning if it's all week long) are just written once at the beginning of the week and color lined all the way through Thursday or Friday... whenever it ends. Different types of activities are all color coded, so we know at a glance what type of activities we need to do for that day. Our entire family relies on this calendar. The yellow highlights are my hubby's on-call days... that means I'm a single mom that day and must plan everything accordingly. We also have to cross out each day with
black sharpies... otherwise we forget what day we are on. And as new events/appointments arise, we all have to make sure it's written on the calendar as soon as possible. Since I have to drive all the kids around to all their activities I have to make sure the schedule is workable. I make sure my laptop & my smartphone all are in sync with this master calendar. Now that I've explained my routine, take a look... boy, am I exhausted!

Sunday, July 27, 2008

In Memory of Buddy...

In the short time you have been in our lives, you have brought us much happiness. We will miss you.


Buddy... soon after he came home with us
Lizzy with Buddy...
Buddy with baby Ava at Leoni Meadows...
Buddy on our family trip to Bodega Bay
4th of July weekend


Northern California Swim League
Eureka Conference Championships
Schaal Aquatic Center
UC Davis
July 26-27, 2008

Yes, it has come to the end of our swim season. As I was going through the pictures I realized how all the pictures look the same... there's only so many poses that can be captured. Also it's sometimes difficult to figure out who's who. Sometimes the only way I can tell is by their cap and goggles. For us championship marks the end of a swim season. For me, that means I get my life back... sort of. It is, however, very rewarding to see how much our kids improved over the months. It takes discipline and dedication, both on the part of the swimmer and the parents. Our kids enjoy being part of our swim team and enjoy all the friendly competition we participate in. It also doesn't hurt that they really like swimming. However, since they are in the water everyday for at least 4 months they are really dark by the end of the summer. Oh well...

At the championship, every team in the conference compete together. This year we were part of the Eureka Conference. Eureka conference has five team with the total of 755 swimmers. That's a lot of swimmers! And at the championship all swimmers must swim all events... that's total of six events minimum: IM, short-freestyle, backstroke, long-freestyle, butterfly, and breast stroke. On top of that each team has the opportunity to place two teams in both Medley Relay and Free Relay. All the events are over the two-day period, but it still ends up being a long day.

This year our kids broke most of their old records. Our second son, Jeffrey, did exceptionally well at the championship. He medaled on medley relay, free relay and the breast stroke. Also Lizzy swam the medley relay (backstroke) and medaled. We were very proud of all our kids. It was very exciting to watch them. Enjoy the pictures below!


Lizzy, Rachel & Jeffrey keeping warm
we arrive early in the morning (before 7am)

Chris eating breakfast & trying to keep warm

Jeffrey catching some zzz's before his events
Lizzy with the breakfast of champions... Gatorade!
It's too early in the morning...
After warm-up Rachel is awake & ready to go
All events are from youngest to oldest...
Rachel getting ready for her first event
Our swim team's name is Arden Park Dolphins...
that's what AP on her cap & swimsuit stands for

at the ready-bench
she really is with her age group... kind of petite for her age
other color uniforms are swimmers from other teams

first event of the day... 100 IM
(Individual Medley)
it is 25 yard butterfly, 25 yard backstroke,
25 yard breast stroke followed by 25 yard freestyle

third leg of the event... breast stroke
after the event Rachel tries to keep warm & dry
Lizzy's turn... here she is at the ready bench
Although she appears to be shy at first
she is full of spunk... as seen here

Lizzy's IM... butterfly
as we all cheer her on, we often yell "pull, pull" during breast stroke...
somehow it always makes her laugh
which ends up distracting her and defeats the purpose of our cheer...

Rachel with dad cheering on her siblings & teammates
Jeffrey on his butterfly stroke
Jeffrey doing his breast stroke

Jeffrey made the finals (8th place) in the breast stroke
here he is during the finals
notice the cap change with each event?
his female coach convinced him to wear her cap for the finals...
too funny...

Yea! I'm done!
Last but not least... Christopher in his IM
first leg of the race... butterfly

2nd leg of the race... backstroke
3rd leg (and his favorite), breast stroke
Chris in between events...

Sunday, July 06, 2008

Bodega Bay, Ca
4th of July Weekend

Over the long weekend we decided to take a mini-vacation to Bodega Bay. The choice of location was purely for convenience. Every year our SKSDA EM has beach Sabbath at Goat Rock Beach... just minutes from Bodega Bay. Originally 5 families from our EFM were going to rent a nice beach house, but for different reasons we ended up with just 3 families. Our large family, James & Linda(James' sister Janie also joined us for the weekend), and Lisa(with her sister's family) rented a beautiful house on a golf course, overlooking the beautiful ocean. It was just breathtaking! The weather was somewhat overcast, but by Saturday the sun shine through... in fact some of us got sunburned!

Eddie got to play a round of golf, as we watched from our deck. We cheered him on as he got on the 10th green... right in front of our deck. I think we embarrassed him... oh well! It was just nice to relax with such a beautiful view. I know I got a lot of resting done this weekend, and enjoyed the cool weather Sonoma Coast offers. We enjoyed it so much we're planning on doing it again.

This was the beautiful house we rented
Livingroom
look at the view from the house
Diningroom Deck... look at the viewEddie enjoying the view while checking his e-mailThey even had a grand piano...
Chris getting some practice inmy cousin Janie cooking us breakfastand my cousin James "pretending" to cook... lol...Janie & Linda with my girlswe even brought our dog, Buddy, with us
here's Buddy with Rachel, Janie & Lizzyrare photo (again) of us
we both got more sun than we thought...despite being at this beautiful place Lizzy, Rachel & Jeffrey
found time to play their Nintendo DSour friends Lisa & Ava joined us on our weekend retreat
Lisa's husband was not able to join us
(we missed you Danny!)here's Lizzy & Tico
Lizzy just LOVES playing with Avaat Doran Beach (at Bodega Bay)...
girls made water trenches
On Sabbath we headed up to Goat Rock Beach
where Pastor Joel led our worship service
part of our Sabbath School lesson task...
to build a 6 men pyramidWe were all treated to a BBQ lunch (burgers)
provided by our single guys (I forgot to take the pictures...)
but here are some photos of our family

Janie and LindaLinda & Jamesme and my favorite cousinsLast but not least...
SKSDA EM group picture